him? The man tells him everything that they say and what happens between them stays between them. He has since taken his temperture by touching his head, small of back, buttocks, and his pubic area before or after work. accused him of taking money, and giving him rum and coke. my son says he is a really nice man and thinks he should not of said anything because his wife is really nice even though he knows what has happened wasn't right, I live in a small village in spain and the man is a neighbour.