Sounds like your girlfriend left your tree's to get too dry before watering!!! Your tree's are in distress! People often will notice their house plants are dry because they look wilted, so they give them some water and they just perk back up. But with Bonsai that level of wilting is likely to be too late. A wilted Bonsai or one that is dropping its leaves spells real trouble. It will not recover the same way a houseplant does.
The Bonsai has a bare minimum of soil, and once it has been allowed to get bone dry, it is very easy for the tree to die or be severely damaged. Therefore, you really have to check the tree often.
One of the main problems with house plants arises from over watering, but with Bonsai, one of the most immediate problems is under watering. So the first thing you need to know is if the tree is wet or dry.
Place your tree outside where it can get morning sun ONLY.Move to shade in the afternoon,protecting from wind. Keep the tree MOIST not soaked,(you can actually drown a bonsai!)taking care not to chill the roots. Hopefully,and I do say hopefully with caution, it will recover in time. Do not feed the tree whilst it is in distress.
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