...from which flowers may grow? should i be passive or should i be agressive-assertive?
i guess assertive is the best way, but i just can't help throwing some agression in, i'm just a bit aggravated at this point.

my friend/lover/what the fuckever i don't even know anymore never called me back. for the severaleth time.
would it be more effective if i just said nothing and never called him again, or if i told him "you should really call people back and not leave them hanging. 'cause now i won't be calling for a good while. maybe that's what you wanted."

any changes or additions? any objections?

i am so annoyed.

At this point, I would suggest that you quietly walk away. You need not have the final word or the final punch.

Your goal should be to find joy and contentment within yourself, rather than to impose your perceptions on others.

In most cases, it is best to just accept what is.

Sure, be assertive, when necessary, but aggression is best left to the ones who have no higher order of existence.

Hey!

Bitchyness is a function of procreation and competition.

When you are assertive and active, you are able to control and influence others.

It's a good thing to be humourous and assertive. But making it agressive isn't really helping you. It will scare people off.

If you want to be assertive and not agressive, be AWARE when you start to become agressive. Write down those situations and learn to recognice when you start to get agressive.

If you can do that, you can choose not to be agressive and be assertive at the same time!