eating tree meals a day? Mom is tired but still put three squares of meal in front of son
Mom loves him dearly and would give her life for him eventhough hes grown
Grown daughter is living by herself independently working and paying her way through life because mom taught her girls must be strong and not let men rule them. Shes been on her own since 18. Shes a payroll secretary/
Son does. nothing
Mom feels its best that he entertain in her home rather than out there in the world where he might get into trouble. He loves the attention. Daughter resents his attitude
I say Treat both the same. Its unfair to him. She enabing him to be a grown child. He should be on his own too. Mom still works eight hour shift and dasjhes home to feed her boyfriend who doesnt work and her son.
Son is 40 years old
Mom is 78 and she says shes so tired
Son says that is what mothers are for, He says he has the greatest mom in the world unlike other mothers
She bveleiveshim
I say son is abusing huis mom
He has never left home
He said his mom loves him unconditionally until she dies unlike some of these other moms who put conditions on what their son shoukd do such as getting out at a certain age and working. He said his mom is a real mom

Right or wrong is not for you to decide. There may be issues that you don't know about. To be fair it doesn't sound like she is treating them equally, but we can't make a judgement off of just one side.