Im growing various vege's but my main concern is the broccoli, cauliflower, and cabbage and the evil lil cabbage loopers/caterpillers are eating it really badly. In the front yard I have some ornamental cabbage the looks like lace because of these stupid things. I already have a recipe to make my own insectide soap but my problem is this:

1. Looked at the small cabbage heads I have and there is a lot of gooey looking green eggs there, LOTS of em, how do I get rid of those??

2. It is now August and I planted in June, I still have no broccoli or cauliflower, did the worm ruin chances of it??

3, If I spray off the caterpillars and they land on the ground then put insectiside soap on the plants will the bugs die or move elsewhere??

4. WASPS, Ive heard they are good for your garden but i have them and hornets eating my zuccini plants, they obvioulsy arent eating ANYTHING!

5. I also have carrots with lots of daddy long legs hiding under the greens, should I be concerned??

Thanks!